by Spybabe7 on Tue Jul 22, 2008 1:40 pm
I dont know everyone's family environment, but let's say, in a family that is functional (are there any of those anymore???)... a parent teaches, trains, educates the child. but, as the child grows, the parent knows to let that child experience the good or bad repercussions of their own decisions. the parent monitors those decisions of course, cuz at 10 years old the child does not have the maturity to make certain choices in life, cuz the wrong choice could be deadly. But, the parent slowly lengthens the rope holding the child close to their control. The child learns to make choices, deal with repercussions of those choices, and eventually he moves out of the house and is fully responsible for his own actions. Hopefully, the parent has given the child enough wisdom to be able to make a good life for himself. This is maturing.
Same with God. Sometimes he 'leaves us to ourselves', and we learn by our mistakes, make choices that are good / bad, and must suffer the repercussions of those choices. We are living our lives, God is not living our lives for us. Therefore... WE have messed things up. If I choose to drug up and fry my brain out by the time I hit 17... that is MY choice, not God's. I must deal with the consequences. The good news is, that although God does not change the outcome of my behavior, He promises to always stand with me, show me He is there, and somehow give me the grace and peace to muddle my way thru. THAT is the promise.
I believe this is the misunderstanding many people have, even those who call themselves "christians". God never said he would take away the problems, fix our mistakes, make us do what he wants, etc... That is one of those 'boxes' that MAN has made up, not God. There is nothing in the Bible saying God promised that.
What he does promise is that He walks with us. Through our lives. And, we can seek him, know him, get guidance from him. Get strength from him. etc...